We gave ourselves to each other

(says the deceased to their wife/husband/partner)

You were always, always so good to me

Sharing your love and compassion, so genuine and so free

Your kindness, generosity, consideration and care

Were welcome, as was the time we had together, the time we had to share

We gave ourselves to each other, as lovers in love should do

Be you family, friends or acquaintances; farewell and best wishes are sent to you

At my side in the sad days, and when occasionally I was in despair

I could always rely upon you, though hopefully, those days were very rare

I save my final words to the love of my life, my darling darling (name)

To the one from whom destiny I part

Please move on and carve out a new life for yourself

With support from those around you, a new start

Its no use mourning me forever,

Time will heal, you must make it so

Make the most of the years ahead of you

Life is precious, too precious to forgo

Goodbye my dear (name of the partner), goodbye.